Have you ever wondered what your life purpose is?
How do you know if you are living your life purpose or not?
Well, here’s a simple test:
If you are not living each day with excitement, energy, and passion, then you are not living true to your life purpose.
“Having a purpose is the difference between making a living and making a life.” ~ Tom Thiss
Have you ever wondered, What is “life purpose”? Is it some woo-woo thing that only people who meditate and chant in a cave “get”? Is it some religious term for holy saints and enlightened? What exactly is it?
Well, there are multiple interpretations of what life purpose is. For the deeply spiritual, they may call it a spiritual calling; for the religious, they may see it as a higher instruction from God.
Beyond religious connotations, a life purpose is simply your life’s message. It is the message you wish to drive in the world during your existence on Earth. Having a life purpose applies to all of us, whether we are religious, non-religious, or atheistic.
Other terms for life purpose can be “life direction,” “purpose statement,” and “life mission statement,” all of which mean the same thing.
It doesn’t matter whether you’re 15, 20, 30, 40, 50, 60, or older. It doesn’t matter who you are, where you’re from, or what you do. As long as you wish to live a more meaningful and conscious life, a life purpose is for you.
Examples of a life purpose are:
“To inspire and unleash creativity in every individual, one person at a time.”
“To help women discover their worth, break their barriers, and realize their hopes and dreams.”
“To educate and enable people to achieve their best health and hence, live a happier and healthier life.”
Why Have a Life Purpose?
Some people may ask, “Why have a life purpose? Why not just live life as we know it and ignore everything else? Why not chill out and relax until we die?”
Well, here are 5 reasons why I feel every person needs a purpose:
1. Life purpose is the starting point of life
Firstly, let’s face it — the reason you’re reading Personal Excellence isn’t because you’re looking for shopping tips or celebrity gossip. Chances are, you’re reading Personal Excellence because you see the importance of personal growth… your growth. Deep inside, you are passionate about being your best self and living your best life, and you feel that the material at PE can help you achieve that.
Well, a life purpose is the first step toward living a truly conscious life of your creation. While you can be busy with a million goals and tasks every day, when you don’t have a clear purpose (one that you believe in with your heart), you may well be barking up the wrong tree. That’s because your goals and tasks may well have nothing to do with your higher purpose in life, which means that you can pursue your current goals and tasks for 10, 20, 30 years, then realise down the road that… hey, this isn’t what I really want after all. As Stephen Covey once said,
Now, when you define your purpose, a purpose that shakes your heart and stirs your soul, that’s when conscious living begin. That’s because you now know what you stand for and your place in this world. While it doesn’t mean that everything suddenly becomes rosy and all your problems disappear (see Myth #1 above), at least you now have a strong clarity of what you want to drive in this world. This subsequently helps you to set long-term goals that move you in the right direction (toward your purpose), in turn rippling out to your short-term goals, then action plans, then daily actions.
Life purpose → Long-term goals → Short-term goals → Action plans → Daily actions
Hazy purpose or no purpose → Hazy, random goals → Hazy, random action plans → Hazy, random daily actions or constantly busy with others’ agendas, or
Clear purpose → Clear long-term goals → Clear short-term goals → Clear action plans → Clear daily actions ✓
The latter scenario is what you want and what will help you live your most meaningful life.
2. Clarity on important vs. unimportant
When you know your purpose, you can instantly differentiate between the important and unimportant. The reality is that most people today are so caught up with a million things that ultimately do not make a difference in their lives. Earn more money! Get a house! Get a second house! Get a car! Get a second car! Get a fleet of cars! With your purpose, you no longer get inundated by these societal goals. You can cut through the BS and get right to the things that truly matter in creating your highest existence.
For example, after I found my purpose, I realised that almost all the goals that I had been working toward, largely due to societal conditioning, were pointless in the grand scheme of things. Rather, what I saw as important was the ability to pursue my purpose: To raise the world’s consciousness and help others to grow. This is what I deem as the most important thing to pursue in the world, even today.
3. Live a life of direction and meaning
When you pursue your purpose and work on your high-impact goals, you’ll readily see your life lit with direction and meaning. As opposed to wasting your time in a job you don’t love, now you can work toward a career that better fits your purpose. As opposed to being around people who are not compatible with you / your goals, now you can find like-minded people and hang around them instead. As opposed to living a random existence, now you can create your life of highest meaning. And that, in itself, is magic.
4. Constant drive and passion
When you pursue your purpose, you’ll gain this incredible burst of energy that never seems to run out.
The ability to pursue my life purpose fills me up with so much energy, drive, and passion that I’m constantly excited every day. Every morning, I bound out of bed, excited at what I can do and create in this world.
On the other hand, when you aren’t living true to your purpose, days become a drag. Weekdays come and you do what’s needed; weekends approach and you look forward to them. Then the week starts and you wake up to Mondays with resistance and boredom, waiting for weekends to come again. This was actually I experienced in my last months prior to quitting my job to pursue my purpose. While I did everything in my day job with dedication and perfection because that’s simply who I am, I wouldn’t wake up with excitement to get to my task list. In fact, my day job was increasingly painful and unbearable as weeks passed by, because it had no relevance to my life’s message.
If you find yourself looking forward to weekends and vacations as opposed to what you do each day, it’s time to think about whether your work is something you seriously care about, or whether it is simply a means to an end (for financial stability, to support your livelihood, to have the money to buy things you don’t need). What you want is to pursue something of highest meaning to you, and for this to happen, you’ve to first start with, “What is my purpose?” (Which we’ll get to later.)
5. Achieve success (in your terms!)
Many people clamour for success as an end in itself. However, I want to highlight that success is a natural effect of doing what you love (and having clear goals, plans, and skills), vs. something you aim for as an end in itself.
As opposed to aiming for success as an end for itself, doesn’t it make more sense to first identify what you truly care for, and then to direct your energy to make this a reality? This is where your purpose comes in. When you discover your true purpose, you will naturally want to devote your life to pursuing it, because it’s what gives you the most fulfillment. You will naturally want to spend time doing it even when you don’t have to, because you care. You will naturally get better and better at it, even if you start at 0 skill level, simply because the time you dedicate will give you the experience and necessary skills. Because of that, success becomes imminent. You will excel and soar in whatever you set yourself to do.
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